Are you having a difficult time finding your true love? There are some questions you should ask yourself first to see that you are ready to welcome true love into your life. Here are 5 simple steps to find your soulmate.
Learning how to love yourself sounds complicated, but it doesn’t have to be! Self-love is at the meeting point of self-acceptance and self-respect. It’s what you get when you spend time getting to know yourself, what it is that makes you happy, and how to feed that passion and happiness into your everyday life. Ask yourself – Do you accept yourself? Do you respect yourself? Do you know yourself?
When you are full of self-love, you can then share that love with others. Because it’s easier to pour from a full glass than one that is empty 🙂
Self-Care is the way we nurture the love for ourselves. What are the things that truly make your mind, body, and soul thrive, and how often are you doing these things? Write a list, and schedule self-care appointments like you would any other task in your life. Taking care of yourself is crucial to maintain balance in your life.
Are you doing what makes you happy? Are you following your dream? Your passion? Do you have a dream and passion? Every single person on this Earth is born with a wonderful joy within to be shared with the world, and it’s up to you to find out exactly what this spark is. Once you know, then your world is complete, and it will allow a partner to enter your life to compliment what you have created. It’s important to complete yourself first, by loving, nurturing and nourishing, and fulfilling your own life on your terms. And then, you will find that partner who will compliment you.
When you envision your soulmate, don’t only list the psychical qualities, you want to think about what it feels like to be with this person. Ask yourself what is your relationship like? What kind of love do you give each other? How do you view the world together? Feel their energy. Feel what it feels like to give love to this person and receive love from this person.
The final step is to believe true love exists, and that you are worthy of it. – Because it does, and you are. Manifest your ideal true love, your relationship, and then – meditate on it.
It’s not over once you meet your soul mate, you have to work hard at your relationship – making sure your communication is clear, making sure your language of love is not misinterpreted. And above all, you both must choose love over and over again in every second of every day. Love Phoebe xo
Soulmate quote above from my book Define Me Divine Me: A Poetic Display of Affection.